When Your Dick Stops Working

Your sexual “usefulness” is not tantamount to having a rock-hard cock.

People Are Not Conquests

Your husband cheated — and now you want to fuck “the other woman,” so to speak. Tread carefully.

The Gods on the Dance Floor

Two questions answered — about the elusive fight for self-confidence, and about what to do when someone withholds their HIV status.

My Love to Femme Tops

Sex gets better when you live in revolt of gender roles.

The Joy of Group Sex

Groups are intimidating, wonderful, difficult, and very hot. Here are my answers to two readers’ questions.

How a Blowjob God is Born

My tips on getting better at oral sex— but only if you want to be.

A Talk Between Friends on Love

We chat about his relationship — why it’s not working, and what should happen next.

What Details Go on Sex Apps?

Beastly, does my disability go on Grindr?

How to Cheat With Permission

Beastly, I love him, but I can’t stop cheating.