Live Your Best Porn Life

And: How to be a good client for sex workers, and more.

My Best Tip for the Blues

If you’re feeling low, welcome to the sad sluts club.

Gay Virgin? Go to a City.

There’s a reason why we flock to cities.

Are You Ready to Get Fisted?

Two questions answered about my favorite sex sport.

Desire Is Your Kink Admission Ticket

There are no clothing, image, or knowledge requirements to get into kink.

When Your Dick Stops Working

Your sexual “usefulness” is not tantamount to having a rock-hard cock.

People Are Not Conquests

Your husband cheated, and now you want to fuck “the other woman” to satisfy your wounded ego.

The Gods on the Dance Floor

Two questions answered — about the elusive fight for self-confidence, and about what to do when someone withholds their HIV status.

My Love to Femme Tops

Sex gets better when you live in revolt of gender roles.