To let go of the shame and trauma of anti-gay religion, you have to fight it.
You may not feel certain about your desires, your body, your identity, or anything else. That’s normal.
Overexposure is the antidote.
Have a disaster plan.
Non-monogamy makes that possible.
Jealousy is the killer of love.
You wish your boyfriend would spend some time in the gym. How can you say this without hurting him?
A primer on being just a hole.