Just Like Riding a Bicycle

Bisexuality and bottoming are things you can’t fully prepare for — sometimes you just have to hop on and go.

When Your Dick Stops Working

Your sexual “usefulness” is not tantamount to having a rock-hard cock.

My Love to Femme Tops

Sex gets better when you live in revolt of gender roles.

The Joy of Group Sex

Groups are intimidating, wonderful, difficult, and very hot. Here are my answers to two readers’ questions.

How a Blowjob God is Born

My tips on getting better at oral sex.

How To Make an Open Relationship Work

My relationship advice after three years with my favorite person.

How to Cheat With Permission

You love him but you can’t stop cheating on him.

Would You Change Your Body for Love?

You refuse to date anyone until you lose weight. Darlin’, you’re never going to feel ready — sometimes you just have to leap.

How To Fuck Your Friends

Casual sexual friendships are the best things in life.