My Best Tip for the Blues

If you’re feeling low, welcome to the sad sluts club.

The Gods on the Dance Floor

Two questions answered — about the elusive fight for self-confidence, and about what to do when someone withholds their HIV status.

My Love to Femme Tops

Sex gets better when you live in revolt of gender roles.

The Joy of Group Sex

Groups are intimidating, difficult, and extremely fun when done well.

How a Blowjob God is Born

My tips on getting better at oral sex.

What Details Go on Sex Apps?

What info do potential sex partners need to know?

How To Find a Fuck Buddy

Tell him what you want — what you really, really want.

Try Non-Monogamy

It works better.