Being Here

This week: my advice for the blues.

Gods on the Dance Floor

This week: HIV disclosure, and how I cope with body dysmorphia.

This week: the struggles of being a fem top, and masturbating at work.

This week: how to plan a sex group, and managing anxiety at a sex party.

This week: How to train yourself to be an oral sex god.

This week: what personal details belong on hookup apps?

This week: a reader knows it’s time to break up. Should it be a “soft” breakup or total separation?

This week: tell him what you want — what you really, really want.

This week: a reader understands non-monogamy but can’t get past his feelings of jealousy.