Head Games

My advice on oral sex, voyeurism, and opening up your relationship.

Welcome to Life, You Dirty Book

It’s here.

Hookup apps are just one part of queer life. If you’re bored, delete them.

Groups are intimidating, wonderful, difficult, and very hot. Here are my answers to two readers’ questions.

My tips on getting better at oral sex— but only if you want to be.

Cum, spit, and everything nice — this is a body fluids post. Four answers to your burning questions.

I’m responding to more reader feedback. Keep it coming.

We chat about his relationship — why it’s not working, and what should happen next.

I lost my friend. And that makes me angry.

Your monogamous relationship isn’t working. Let’s fix it.