Ask Beastly: Shame, Shame

This week: How does sex happen on a gay cruise? Why does wild sex make us feel shame? And much more.

Feedback: Leather Memories

New feedback post, because German class is hard. I reply to notes from readers, soul brothers, and someone I fisted at MAL.

This week: What are bathhouse rules? Do daddies need aftercare? And why are gay bars so defeating sometimes?

This week: three kinky questions, with help from Master Phil and Race Bannon.

This week: my final bug-chasing question (please), dealing with PrEP shame, and taking a sex break.

My first style post in ten years. New decade, new thoughts on living well.

This week: problems with cumming, dick insecurity, and thongs, baby!

Some nice feedback about my book, my butthole, and my ex-boyfriend.

This week: a new fist top needs a hole, a new bottom needs help, and a new throuple needs saving.