Fuck Your Way Into Confidence

Nobody feels sexy in the beginning. Also, I’m trying something new — please enjoy my art.

Are You Ready to Get Fisted?

Two questions answered about my favorite sport — how to jump from toys to hands, and what water is best for douching.

Weird and Wonderful

The hot, strange, less-noticed kinks and fetishes are no less important than the more common ones.

Desire Is Your Kink Admission Ticket

To explore kink, you don’t need proper gear or even foundational knowledge. You just need curiosity.

You Have to Hear It

A little post about my writing process.

There Are No Lost Souls

I respond to ten messages from readers — no questions, just stories and confessions.

When Your Dick Stops Working

Your sexual “usefulness” is not tantamount to having a rock-hard cock.

People Are Not Conquests

Your husband cheated — and now you want to fuck “the other woman,” so to speak. Tread carefully.

The Gods on the Dance Floor

Two questions answered — about the elusive fight for self-confidence, and about what to do when someone withholds their HIV status.