There Are No Lost Souls

I respond to ten messages from readers — no questions, just powerful stories and confessions.

When Your Dick Stops Working

Your sexual “usefulness” is not tantamount to having a rock-hard cock.

Your husband cheated — and now you want to fuck “the other woman,” so to speak. Tread carefully.

Two questions answered — about the elusive fight for self-confidence, and about what to do when someone withholds their HIV status.

Sex gets better when you live in revolt of gender roles.

My advice on oral sex, voyeurism, and opening up your relationship.

It’s here.

Hookup apps are just one part of queer life. If you’re bored, delete them.

My tips on getting better at oral sex— but only if you want to be.