There Are No Lost Souls

I respond to ten messages from readers — no questions, just stories and confessions.

When Your Dick Stops Working

Your sexual “usefulness” is not tantamount to having a rock-hard cock.

Sex gets better when you live in revolt of gender roles.

My tips on getting better at oral sex.

You love him but you can’t stop cheating on him.

Casual sexual friendships are the best things in life.

Sexual compulsions are real, but you’re probably just pathologizing normal, healthy human behavior.

It’s fine to have crushes, but those straight boys will never love you back.

Befriend people who have been out longer than you have.