Big Life Question

This week: being gay and Deaf or hard of hearing, writing about what you love, and not giving up.

The Self Dance

This week: the relationships we keep — with ourselves, our minds, our partners, our lovers, and our butts.

This week: I respond to ten messages from readers — no questions, just stories and confessions.

This week: an older gay man feels disconnected from gay culture, and another is exploring ways to treat E.D.

This week: the struggles of being a fem top, and masturbating at work.

This week: How to train yourself to be an oral sex god.

This week: a chronic cheater loves his partner but can’t stop cheating.

This week: navigating casual sex friendships.

This week: I respond to two readers who think they are addicted to masturbation.