Lost Souls

This week: I respond to ten messages from readers — no questions, just stories and confessions.

Hard Parts

This week: an older gay man feels disconnected from gay culture, and another is exploring ways to treat E.D.

This week: the struggles of being a fem top, and masturbating at work.

This week: How to train yourself to be an oral sex god.

This week: a chronic cheater loves his partner but can’t stop cheating.

This week: navigating casual sex friendships.

This week: I respond to two readers who think they are addicted to masturbation.

This week: it’s fine to have crushes, but those straight boys will never love you back.

This week: a gay man needs some help being gay.