Big Life Question

This week: being gay and Deaf or hard of hearing, writing about what you love, and not giving up.

The Self Dance

This week: the relationships we keep — with ourselves, our minds, our partners, our lovers, and our butts.

Lost Souls

This week: I respond to ten messages from readers — no questions, just stories and confessions.

Hard Parts

This week: an older gay man feels disconnected from gay culture, and another is exploring ways to treat E.D.

Thank You Satan for Fem Tops

This week: the struggles of being a fem top, and masturbating at work.

Hey Sucker

This week: How to train yourself to be an oral sex god.

How to Cheat With Permission

This week: a chronic cheater loves his partner but can’t stop cheating.

How To Fuck Your Friends

This week: navigating casual sex friendships.