In Your Head

This week: navigating beauty fictions, digital kink, and who gets to wear the leather look.

Lost Souls

This week: I respond to ten messages from readers — no questions, just stories and confessions.

Head Games

This week: voyeurism, talking to your partner about an open relationship, and how to improve your oral skills.

Welcome to Life, You Dirty Book

It’s here.

Take You to the Candy Shop

This week: a reader wants to stick hard candy up their butt.

Thanks for the Love Notes

I get a lot of emails that aren’t questions — messages of feedback, thanks, and more. I decided to respond to some of them.

That Funny Feeling Is a Fetish

This week: a reader wants to explore gags and bondage.