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All questions are published anonymously.

Love, Beastly is a queer, shame-free corner of the Internet where you can ask questions that you can’t ask elsewhere. No topic is off-limits. I practice a sex-and-kink-positive, risk-reduction approach to sex and sexual health, and I believe everyone deserves accurate, honest, unfiltered advice that doesn’t regurgitate tired social norms or outdated moralisms.

I work to provide the most accurate, up-to-date information and consult experts as necessary.

1. ALL ARE WELCOME. YES, EVEN YOU, YOU DIRTY FREAK. This blog is for all genders, ages, sexual orientations, and backgrounds. Please note that you DO NOT have to use your real name in the contact form below. (All questions are published anonymously, but if you want added protection, use an alias, a drag name, whatever.)

2. PLEASE KEEP YOUR QUESTION UNDER 300 WORDS. This is roughly one big paragraph. I do not edit questions beyond basic typos. All surnames and identifying details will be deleted to protect identity.

3. PLEASE INCLUDE YOUR PRONOUNS. I will make no gender assumptions.

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5. DISCLAIMER: By emailing me, you consent to my publishing the contents of your email anonymously on this blog and in any other format I choose at my discretion, including books, articles, and other media. Advice, images, and information contained in this online site are presented for general educational, entertainment, and information purposes, and are not intended to be legal, medical, or other expert advice or services, and should not be used in place of consultation with appropriate professionals. The information contained in this site should not be considered exhaustive and the user should seek the advice of appropriate professionals. In no event shall or its sole owner, Alexander Cheves, be liable for any liability, loss, injury, or risk (including, without limitation, incidental and consequential damages, personal injury/wrongful death, lost profits or damages) which is incurred or suffered as a direct or indirect result of the use of any of the material, advice, guidance or services on this site, whether based on warranty, contract, tort, or any other legal theory.

*You don’t have to send me a question! If you have feedback, commentary, disagreements, hate mail, stories, dirty fantasies, sweet nothings, or hot tea to spill, send it my way.


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