My Message for Your Homophobic Family

Is your grandfather a homophobe? Fine, I’m your granddad now.

Live Your Best Porn Life

And: How to be a good client for sex workers, and more.

The Fisters and Their Friends

Four fisting questions answered.

My Best Tip for the Blues

If you’re feeling low, welcome to the sad sluts club.

Gay Virgin? Go to a City.

There’s a reason why we flock to cities.

Yes, You Can Untangle Drugs From Sex

Drugs are not evil — they can be beautiful and fun — but you have to know the risks.

Just Like Riding a Bicycle

There are some sexual experiences you can’t fully prepare for — sometimes you must learn as you go.