A Woman Rides the Beast

This week: all bodies deserve pleasure, a straight man wants to get pegged, and a beginner fist bottom needs advice.

The Mark of the Beast

This week: how to find a gay-friendly doctor, and how to build a sex life without poppers.

This week: advice for straight people, a tickle fetish, and being a boy.

This week: managing risk in groups, shopping for sex, and my secret to making good porn.

This week: bathhouse tips, hooking up in New York, and why we party.

This week: being gay and Deaf or hard of hearing, writing about what you love, and not giving up.

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This week: the relationships we keep — with ourselves, our minds, our partners, our lovers, and our butts.

This week: navigating beauty fictions, digital kink, and who gets to wear the leather look.