There Are No Lost Souls

I respond to ten messages from readers — no questions, just powerful stories and confessions.

People Are Not Conquests

Your husband cheated — and now you want to fuck “the other woman,” so to speak. Tread carefully.

Two questions answered — about the elusive fight for self-confidence, and about what to do when someone withholds their HIV status.

It’s here.

I’m responding to more reader feedback. Keep it coming.

I lost my friend. And that makes me angry.

Your monogamous relationship isn’t working. Let’s fix it.

Beastly, I want to be be a slut, but my anxiety is getting in the way.

Beastly, does my disability go on Grindr?