The Fisters and Their Friends

Four fisting questions answered.

My Best Tip for the Blues

If you’re feeling low, welcome to the sad sluts club.

Just Like Riding a Bicycle

There are some sexual experiences you can’t fully prepare for — sometimes you must learn as you go.

Weird and Wonderful

The hot, strange, less-noticed kinks and fetishes are no less important than the more common ones.

Desire Is Your Kink Admission Ticket

There are no clothing, image, or knowledge requirements to get into kink.

There Are No Lost Souls

I respond to ten messages from readers — no questions, just stories and confessions.

People Are Not Conquests

Your husband cheated, and now you want to fuck “the other woman” to satisfy your wounded ego.

The Gods on the Dance Floor

Two questions answered — about the elusive fight for self-confidence, and about what to do when someone withholds their HIV status.

Welcome to Life, You Dirty Book

It’s here.