There Are No Lost Souls

I respond to ten messages from readers — no questions, just powerful stories and confessions.

People Are Not Conquests

Your husband cheated — and now you want to fuck “the other woman,” so to speak. Tread carefully.

The Gods on the Dance Floor

Two questions answered — about the elusive fight for self-confidence, and about what to do when someone withholds their HIV status.

Welcome to Life, You Dirty Book

It’s here.

Happiness Only Real When Shared

I’m responding to more reader feedback. Keep it coming.

PSA: Fear Makes Sex Better

Beastly, I want to be be a slut, but my anxiety is getting in the way.

What Details Go on Sex Apps?

Beastly, does my disability go on Grindr?