Gay Virgin? Go to a City.

There’s a reason why we flock to cities.

Not Broken, Just a Breakup

A loving separation.

Two questions answered — about the elusive fight for self-confidence, and about what to do when someone withholds their HIV status.

My tips on getting better at oral sex.

We chat about his relationship — why it’s not working, and what should happen next.

My relationship advice after three years with my favorite person.

A personal announcement and an update about this blog.

You know it’s time to get a divorce.

You wish he would spend more time in the gym.