Gay Virgin? Go to a City.

There’s a reason why we flock to cities.

The Gods on the Dance Floor

Two questions answered — about the elusive fight for self-confidence, and about what to do when someone withholds their HIV status.

How a Blowjob God is Born

My tips on getting better at oral sex.

A Talk Between Friends on Love

We chat about his relationship — why it’s not working, and what should happen next.

How To Make an Open Relationship Work

My relationship advice after three years with my favorite person.

You Can’t Change Your Partner

You wish he would spend more time in the gym.