Are You Ready to Get Fisted?

Two questions answered about my favorite sport — how to jump from toys to hands, and what water is best for douching.

The Gods on the Dance Floor

Two questions answered — about the elusive fight for self-confidence, and about what to do when someone withholds their HIV status.

Sex gets better when you live in revolt of gender roles.

Groups are intimidating, wonderful, difficult, and very hot. Here are my answers to two readers’ questions.

My tips on getting better at oral sex.

Casual sexual friendships are the best things in life.

Some advice for randy newcomers to the art of self-pleasure.

Befriend people who have been out longer than you have.

Some queer men just don’t enjoy anal sex.