Are You Ready to Get Fisted?

Two questions answered about my favorite sport — how to jump from toys to hands, and what water is best for douching.

The Gods on the Dance Floor

Two questions answered — about the elusive fight for self-confidence, and about what to do when someone withholds their HIV status.

My Love to Femme Tops

Sex gets better when you live in revolt of gender roles.

The Joy of Group Sex

Groups are intimidating, wonderful, difficult, and very hot. Here are my answers to two readers’ questions.

How a Blowjob God is Born

My tips on getting better at oral sex.

How To Fuck Your Friends

Casual sexual friendships are the best things in life.

Some Art Is Better Than Sex

Some advice for randy newcomers to the art of self-pleasure.

Not a Top, Bottom, or Vers. Are You a Side?

Some queer men just don’t enjoy anal sex.