Head Games

My advice on oral sex, voyeurism, and opening up your relationship.

Welcome to Life, You Dirty Book

It’s here.

You’re in the Club

Hookup apps are just one part of queer life. If you’re bored, delete them.

The Joy of Group Sex

Groups are intimidating, wonderful, difficult, and very hot. Here are my answers to two readers’ questions.

How a Blowjob God is Born

My tips on getting better at oral sex— but only if you want to be.

How to Make Cum Taste Better (And More!)

Cum, spit, and everything nice — this is a body fluids post. Four answers to your burning questions.

Happiness Only Real When Shared

I’m responding to more reader feedback. Keep it coming.

A Talk Between Friends on Love

We chat about his relationship — why it’s not working, and what should happen next.