Head Games

My advice on oral sex, voyeurism, and opening up your relationship.

Welcome to Life, You Dirty Book

It’s here.

You’re in the Club

Hookup apps are just one part of queer life. If you’re bored, delete them.

The Joy of Group Sex

Groups are intimidating, wonderful, difficult, and very hot. Here are my answers to two readers’ questions.

How a Blowjob God is Born

My tips on getting better at oral sex— but only if you want to be.

How to Make Cum Taste Better (And More!)

Cum, spit, and everything nice — this is a body fluids post. Four answers to your burning questions.

The Undervalued, Old School Orange Hanky

Beastly, I’m tired of being asked what I’m into. I’m into what they’re into — I’m here to please them.

PSA: Fear Makes Sex Better

Beastly, I want to be be a slut, but my anxiety is getting in the way.