Live Your Best Porn Life

And: How to be a good client for sex workers, and more.

Cancel Culture Is Our Ugly Side

Here’s more reader feedback, fights, and FFriendly notes.

Are You Ready to Get Fisted?

Two questions answered about my favorite sex sport.

Desire Is Your Kink Admission Ticket

There are no clothing, image, or knowledge requirements to get into kink.

There Are No Lost Souls

I respond to ten messages from readers — no questions, just stories and confessions.

The Gods on the Dance Floor

Two questions answered — about the elusive fight for self-confidence, and about what to do when someone withholds their HIV status.

My Love to Femme Tops

Sex gets better when you live in revolt of gender roles.

Head Games

My advice on oral sex, voyeurism, and opening up your relationship.

How to Make Cum Taste Better — And More.

Cum, spit, and everything nice — this is a body fluids post.