Big Life Question

This week: being gay and Deaf or hard of hearing, writing about what you love, and not giving up.

The Self Dance

This week: the relationships we keep — with ourselves, our minds, our partners, our lovers, and our butts.

This week: navigating beauty fictions, digital kink, and who gets to wear the leather look.

This week: Folsom Europe, necrophilia, and long-distance relationships.

This week: falling for a sex worker, enema play, and having a better relationship with porn.

This week: reader feedback and a discussion on cancel culture.

This week: preparing for your first fist.

This week: kink and past trauma, and getting into kink as a beginner.

This week: I respond to ten messages from readers — no questions, just stories and confessions.