This week: an HIV-positive reader considers stopping his meds to “gift” HIV to his bug-chaser buddies.

Thanks for the Love Notes

I get a lot of emails that aren’t questions — messages of feedback, thanks, and more. I decided to respond to some of them.

On Bug-Chasing

This week: I answer a litany of questions about bug-chasing — the tabooed fetish of seeking HIV.

30 Gay Words You Should Know

You probably won’t learn these words in school.