The Fisters and Their Friends

This week: four fisting questions answered.

Gods on the Dance Floor

This week: HIV disclosure, and how I cope with body dysmorphia.

Happiness Only Real When Shared

This week: I’m responding to more reader feedback.

Anger Is a Very Creative Emotion

This week: healing from the trauma of living in the closet.

On the Hunt

This week: my personal ad.


This week: an HIV-positive reader considers stopping his meds to “gift” HIV to his bug-chaser buddies.

Can You Get HIV Twice?

This week: a gay couple — both HIV-positive and undetectable — is worried about HIV “superinfection.”