The Fisters and Their Friends

Four fisting questions answered.

The Gods on the Dance Floor

Two questions answered — about the elusive fight for self-confidence, and about what to do when someone withholds their HIV status.

Happiness Only Real When Shared

I’m responding to more reader feedback.

Eulogy for a Lost Gay Man

Goodbye, dear friend.

The Powerful Anger of Gay Men

It’s hard to let go of the rage and trauma of the closet, but you have to try.

Fag Seeks Alpha for Fisting and Fun

I’m looking for a regular playmate.

When He Wants Your HIV

Some guys want you to “gift” them HIV.

Can You Get HIV Twice?

What is the real risk of HIV “superinfection”?

The Truth About Bug-Chasing

You probably know someone who fantasizes about getting HIV.