When Your Dick Stops Working

Your sexual “usefulness” is not tantamount to having a rock-hard cock.

People Are Not Conquests

Your husband cheated — and now you want to fuck “the other woman,” so to speak. Tread carefully.

The Gods on the Dance Floor

Two questions answered — about the elusive fight for self-confidence, and about what to do when someone withholds their HIV status.

My Love to Femme Tops

Sex gets better when you live in revolt of gender roles.

Head Games

My advice on oral sex, voyeurism, and opening up your relationship.

You’re in the Club

Hookup apps are just one part of queer life. If you’re bored, delete them.

The Joy of Group Sex

Groups are intimidating, wonderful, difficult, and very hot. Here are my answers to two readers’ questions.

How to Make Cum Taste Better (And More!)

Cum, spit, and everything nice — this is a body fluids post. Four answers to your burning questions.

The Undervalued, Old School Orange Hanky

Beastly, I’m tired of being asked what I’m into. I’m into what they’re into — I’m here to please them.