Live Your Best Porn Life

And: How to be a good client for sex workers, and more.

Just Like Riding a Bicycle

There are some sexual experiences you can’t fully prepare for — sometimes you must learn as you go.

Fuck Your Way Into Confidence

No one feels sexy in the beginning.

When Your Dick Stops Working

Your sexual “usefulness” is not tantamount to having a rock-hard cock.

People Are Not Conquests

Your husband cheated, and now you want to fuck “the other woman” to satisfy your wounded ego.

Head Games

My advice on oral sex, voyeurism, and opening up your relationship.

A Talk Between Friends on Love

We chat about his relationship — why it’s not working, and what should happen next.

Why Polyamory Succeeds

You and your husband are poly and it’s been fine — but now you need some limits.