Sex Addiction is Mostly a Social Invention

Most of what you know about addiction is wrong.

A Case for Non-Monogamy

A monogamous gay man wants to date a non-monogamous gay man. Trouble is brewing.

How to Date Someone With Different Sexual Interests

It’s not easy if you’re monogamous.

You Can’t Change Your Partner

You wish your boyfriend would spend some time in the gym. How can you say this without hurting him?

When It’s Time to Move On

Discard pile.

6 Dating Tips for Gay Throuples

You and your boyfriend are interested in a third. Read this first.

How Long Does It Take to Heal After a Breakup?

After 20 years, he betrayed you. How long until you’re ready to date again?

How Oliver Sacks’ Book ‘Gratitude’ Helped Me Through My Breakup

Reading this book on the beach gave me a tiny glimmer of hope.