My Message for Your Homophobic Family

Is your grandfather a homophobe? Fine, I’m your granddad now.

Live Your Best Porn Life

And: How to be a good client for sex workers, and more.

Gay Virgin? Go to a City.

There’s a reason why we flock to cities.

When Your Dick Stops Working

Your sexual “usefulness” is not tantamount to having a rock-hard cock.

The Gods on the Dance Floor

Two questions answered — about the elusive fight for self-confidence, and about what to do when someone withholds their HIV status.

My Love to Femme Tops

Sex gets better when you live in revolt of gender roles.

You’re in the Club

If you’re bored with hookup apps, delete them.

The Issue With Being a Size Queen

The BBC myth has racist roots.